I Tested SecretDesires AI Chatbot for 1 Month

SecretDesires.ai’s NSFW chat feature isn’t just pillow talk—it’s more like slipping into a private scene where your imagination gets VIP access. Here’s the lowdown: what it does, how it feels, and whether it might be your kind of digital playground.

Secretdesires AI Girlfriend Chatbot — Step-by-Step User Guide

I decided to try Secretdesires AI chatbot. Created this comprehensive user guide of how to use this tool. Check it below!

1) What you see on the screen

Conversation area (center)

• Messages appear as chat bubbles.
• Media previews (e.g., photos) display full-width inside the chat. Click to open them larger and save to your device (OS/browser controls).
• Hovering a message reveals quick actions (small icons above the bubble), typically including:
  • Pin (save/mark the message for later),
  • Copy link / Copy text,
  • Delete from your view.
    (Available actions can vary by message type and your permissions.)

“Capabilities” panel (middle)

• Confirms what partners can do: send texts, pictures, voice messages, and call you.
• It also says “Just ask,” meaning you trigger features with simple requests (e.g., “Send me a voice note,” “Call me now,” “Share a photo from the beach.”).

“Response Style” selector (Roleplay ↔ Texting)

• Roleplay: longer, immersive, in-character scenes and actions.
• Texting: shorter, chatty, back-and-forth messages.
• Tap either pill to switch instantly—changes apply to the very next reply.

Privacy & security notice (bottom)

• “100% secure and confidential” and “Your data is never sold.”
• Small green badges/icons reinforce security and privacy status.

Message composer (bottom bar)

• Input field: “Type a message here…”
• Send button: paper-airplane icon on the right.
• Next to the composer you may see small utility/privacy icons; leave them as-is unless you’re adjusting security or attachment options provided by your plan/browser.

2) First-time setup (1 minute)

1. Open a partner chat (e.g., Sofia).
2. Choose a Response Style under “Response Style.” Not sure? Start with Texting (snappy), then try Roleplay (cinematic).
3. Skim the Capabilities card so you know what to request.

3) Start the conversation

• Type a natural opener and press Send:
  • “Hey Sofia! What’s your mood today?”
  • “Fancy a night walk around Barcelona?”
• For an instant vibe check, ask something contextual:
  • “Send me a quick voice note describing the beach view.”
  • “Share a photo that matches your plans tonight.”

4) Ask for specific capabilities (“Just ask”)

You don’t need special commands—plain English works.

• Photos: “Can you send me a new beach selfie?”
• Voice message: “Leave me a 20-second voice note in a flirty tone.”
• Call: “Call me now.” (Have your audio permissions ready; accept the in-app/browser prompt if one appears.)
• Style switch mid-chat: Tap Roleplay for scene-driven replies or Texting for quick back-and-forth.

Tip: Combine requests for richer replies:
“Let’s switch to Roleplay. You’re inviting me to a beach volleyball game—send a photo and a short voice note to set the scene.”

5) Manage messages & media

• Open / zoom media by clicking the thumbnail.
• Save: Use your browser/device “Save image/video” control.
• Pin important messages for quick reference (hover the bubble → pin icon).
• Copy useful text or links (hover → copy).
• Delete from your view if something clutters the thread (hover → trash icon).
  Note: Deleting locally won’t affect the partner’s memory unless specified by the app’s global settings.

6) Switching Response Style—when & why

• Use Texting when you want:
  • Quick answers, planning, casual banter, status checks.
• Use Roleplay when you want:
  • Storytelling, emotions, scene setting, actions in *asterisks*.

You can flip the toggle as often as you like; it updates the very next reply.

7) Privacy, safety, and boundaries

• The banner confirms confidential chats and no data selling.
• You control the tone and limits. If you want to step out of character, type (OOC) or say “Out of character—let’s set boundaries.”
• You can always say: “Let’s keep it light,” “No explicit content,” or “Stay PG-13.”

8) Conversation chemistry: prompts that work

• Vibe check: “Rate your energy 1–10 and tell me why.”
• Sensory detail: “Describe your outfit like a fashion stylist.”
• Roleplay kick-off: “We just met at a beach volleyball court—start the scene.”
• Media-plus: “Send a voice note while sharing a photo that matches your mood.”
• Planning: “Offer three date ideas for tonight and pick one.”

9) Troubleshooting

• No voice/call?
  • Check browser permissions for microphone/speaker.
  • Try toggling Texting ↔ Roleplay if replies seem inconsistent.
• Media won’t load?
  • Refresh the page and retry; ensure your connection is stable.
• Buttons missing or greyed out?
  • Some features depend on your plan or device. Re-open the chat or sign in again.

10) Quick workflow (from zero to flirty in 60 seconds)

1. Open partner → Choose Response Style.
2. Send opener → “Send a voice note to say hi.”
3. Ask for a photo to set the scene.
4. Flip to Roleplay for an immersive moment.
5. Pin the best lines you want to revisit later.

How NSFW Chat Actually Works

You pick or build a character—say, sultry, flirty, or downright taboo—then the fun begins. You can text or roleplay, toggle between casual flirting or diving into deeper scenes.

Want the AI to send spontaneous voice notes or steamy images mid-chat? It does. Feels uncannily real sometimes.

What’s In That Experience?

Human-Touch Observations

Sometimes I punch in a risqué prompt and the AI just gets it—reacts with humor or a spicy comeback, like it’s reading my mind.

It’s playful, sometimes messy, occasionally too eager—but the glitchy bits are part of its charm. Making me pause, reroute, or just laugh at how it sputters before getting the scene right.

Reddit peeps report it’s not all smooth sailing:

“Bodies come deformed… No refund.”
“Call doesn’t work, doesn’t generate same girl for consistency… full of bugs!”

Still, others rave that curating your character and getting your groove on in chat—without awkward IRL judgment—is liberating.

Personal Take (Because I Can’t Keep It Generic)

Feel like someone’s leaned into your brain, flipped through the “weird kinks” drawer, and said: “You know what? This works.”

That’s how the NSFW chat feels—raw, customizable, and uncensored. When it does what it’s meant to—responding with timing, tone, emotional depth—it’s oddly intimate.

Then there are moments when it trips—tries to sound sultry, instead parodies. But those hiccups can spark your creativity: revise the prompt, change the role, nudge again. Keeps it human-ish, not polished.

Who Might Click with This?

Final Thoughts

SecretDesires.ai’s NSFW chat is like opening a door to your psyche’s spicy corner—and finding a companion waiting there.

It’s imperfect, raw, and personal. If you’re looking for someone—or something—that fires back with emotional nuance, erotically timed responses, and flexibility to shift moods on a dime, this tool’s worthy of a spin.